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كنت قد لقيت المديرة المشاركة لمركز كيفوكيان لدراسات الشرق الأوسط بجامعة نيويورك عام 1995 وعلمت أنها مقبلة على الزواج فبعثت لها بهذه المقالة
كنت قد لقيت المديرة المشاركة لمركز كيفوكيان لدراسات الشرق الأوسط بجامعة نيويورك عام 1995 وعلمت أنها مقبلة على الزواج فبعثت لها بهذه المقالة
A Mother’s
Advice.
The mother said to her daughter on the night
of her wedding: “you have departed the nest you have grown up in to nest that
is not familiar to you. You will have a companion you are well not acquainted
with. He is going to be your spouse, therefore be his concubine, he shall
immediately be your slave. I am giving you an advice of ten points:
1-
Leave out greed in your companionship.
2-
Live with him on
the basis of obedience.
3-
Pay attention to
what his eyes might fall onto in the house.
4-
Avoid showing him
any ugliness, and he should find the best smell.
5-
Watch and respect
the times of his meals.
6-
Keep calm when he
sleeps: the bite of hunger makes him angry, and disturbing his sleep brings
about hate.
7-
Take good care of
the house and be honest with his wealth.
8-
Take good care of
him and his children.
9-
Keep his secrets
or don’t spread his secrets.
10-Do not disobey any of his orders.
Spreading his secrets will be unsafe as he may take revenge, and disobeying him
brings about his rage.
Moreover avoid showing joy when he is sad
or sadness when he is gay since the first indicates irresponsibility and the
second brings disturbance. You shall not attain what you want unless you give
priority to his satisfaction.
This
is a translation of the Arab woman Asmaa bint kharijah by Mazin Motabbagani.
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